This
summer has been special to me. Not only have I reacquainted
myself with old school friends but have also revisited
the old school site. After contacting Jim Atkinson, a good friend of mine at school as well as afterwards in London where we both started work, we arranged a sailing weekend at Woolverstone with Peter Brown, another good schoolfriend. After that, it took little persuasion to get Chris Snuggs to join us. Even though he professed to not having any sailing skills he surprised himself (and us!) over the weekend with his natural ability at the helm of a sailing yacht!! It was after gathering this motley crew that the reunion concept took shape. The rest is history. |
Well, it was a unique weekend, very moving. Forty years ..... I had never properly said goodbye to the teachers, and hadn't had any contact since 1964. We all looked older of course, but the Old Guys were surprisingly 'young', sprightly, full of humour and fascinating conversation. I can't separate out the reunion itself from the sailing, since the first stemmed from the latter, and having met the Old Masters for Friday lunch at the Butt and then for coffee at Derek's we spent much of the weekend thinking and talking about the experience while we were sailing up and down the Orwell - AND out into the North Sea! And
of course, I hadn't met my sailing companions for forty years
either! How did we know we'd even get along? And yet we did.
Shared memories helped, but so did the circumstances, the scenery,
the beautiful weather, the good-natured banter. Four quite different
personalities, but which seemed to complement each other, and
of course with Peter as the consummate, considerate host. Yes,
it was a really quality weekend, relaxing, civilised, good sailing
(just enough wind), fine food, both the improvised lunches and
the more elaborate evening sorties. |
I drove into Pin Mill and parked behind
the Butt & Oyster
and, as I stepped out of my car and joined my former Housemaster and
those others who helped shape my adolescence and mind half a century
ago, I experienced my first physical sense of time travel. Nothing
had changed. Nothing in view from the Butt & Oyster's forecourt
had not been there 40-50 years ago, and nothing of the old had gone.
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After
40 years, chance brought me back to living opposite the School and
sailing once again from Woolverstone. Meeting them after such a long time was a very special moment for the four of us. |
Forty years .... we kept saying it to ourselves as if we couldn't believe it. Forty years since we'd met either each other or the Old Masters, as we came to call them. So much had happened to us all since, yet in many ways it seemed like yesterday that we'd sat in Stretch's French class, gathered round Ben Turner's workbench or listened to Derek telling us a story as we gazed out of the window onto that glorious games field in front of the school. |
And of course, Jim, Mike and I owe great thanks to Peter, both for the delightful weekend's sailing and for his initiative in arranging the reunion. Thanks, too, to Peter's wife Penny for making us feel so welcome - and for allowing us to borrow her husband for the weekend. (Chris Snuggs)